How to Adjust to Wearing a Wig or Topper: A Guide for Beginners

Josie Larsson
Apr 24
3 min read

JL Wig Consulting

April 24, 2025

Whether you’ve chosen to wear a wig or topper due to hair loss, thinning, medical reasons, or simply for style, stepping into the world of alternative hair can feel like a big change. You’re not alone if you feel excited and a little overwhelmed. At JL Wig Consulting, we walk with you every step of the way—and today, we’re breaking down how to adjust to wearing a wig or topper with confidence.

1. Give Yourself Time to Adjust

Like any new habit or lifestyle change, wearing a wig or topper takes time to feel "normal." Don’t be discouraged if it feels unfamiliar or even uncomfortable at first. Start by wearing it at home for short periods of time, then gradually increase your wear time as your comfort and confidence grow.

Think of it like breaking in a new pair of shoes—you’ll soon forget you’re even wearing it.

2. Find the Right Fit

The right fit makes all the difference. If your wig or topper feels too tight, too loose, or unstable, it’s going to distract you. A professional fitting ensures your piece sits securely and comfortably all day. This is especially important for women experiencing hair loss, as proper sizing helps protect delicate areas of the scalp.

Do you live in Utah? JL Wig Consulting offers private, personalized, in-home consultations. Stop looking for a wig shop near you. Book an appointment with the wig shop that comes to you. Not in Utah but interested in our services? Contact us! Our wig services are mobile and we can still come to you!

3. Style It to Feel Like You

A big part of adjusting is making your wig or topper feel like you. That could mean trimming the front, having it shaped by a stylist, or customizing the color slightly. Don’t be afraid to tweak it so it feels more natural and familiar.

At JL Wig Consulting, we love helping clients personalize their pieces—because when it looks like you, it feels like you.

4. Learn the Basics of Maintenance

Feeling confident in your wig or topper also comes from knowing how to care for it. Get familiar with washing, brushing, storing, and styling your piece to extend its life and keep it looking great.

We recommend starting with:

A gentle shampoo and conditioner (specifically for synthetic or human hair wigs)
A wig stand to keep the shape intact
A wide-tooth comb or wig brush to reduce tangling and shedding

Questions about the maintenance of your wig? Schedule a complimentary 30 minute virtual call with JLWC.

5. Embrace the Emotional Side

Wearing a wig or topper can bring up emotions—grief, empowerment, discomfort, relief. All of it is valid. This journey is just as much emotional as it is physical. Let yourself feel it. Talk to someone you trust. And remember, wearing alternative hair doesn’t define you—it enhances your options.

6. Practice, Practice, Practice

The more you wear it, the easier it becomes. Practice putting it on, styling it, and even talking about it with others if you feel ready. Over time, you’ll find what works for you, and you might even forget you have it on.

You’ve Got This

Transitioning into wearing a wig or topper is a journey, but it’s one you don’t have to take alone. Whether you’re new to alternative hair or just looking to feel more confident in your current piece, JL Wig Consulting is here for you.

We offer personalized fittings, styling help, educational tools, and emotional support for wherever you are on your hair journey.

You’re not just wearing a wig. You’re stepping into a new season with power and grace. And we’re cheering you on every step of the way.

A Message From The Wig Expert:

"Congratulations on starting your wig journey! I am proud of you for taking this step to feeling more confident and more like yourself. Wearing wigs and toppers has a learning curve, but be patient. Give it time. Don't give up! Even I have to practice wearing new hair pieces!"